Coming from Dutch, New Zealand, and Israeli cultures in different phases of my life, all of which use plain speaking when people communicate with one another, American culture was different to me. Fear of giving offense in one’s conversation had led to a more sensitive style of language that often addresses points at issue indirectly or by “speaking sideways.” In dealing with this culture difference my challenge was learning to communicate with others so as not to offend or hurt feelings, yet being truthful and not living in denial about issues either. In raising our young family, for example, my wife and also my children would often say something like, “I don’t have a problem with what you are saying, just with the way you say it.”